Due to something which happens today, and the depth of the impact, I realise the need for people to understand and fully grasp the concept of these 2 phrases before they can talk about wealth creation.

1. For things to change, I must change first.

2. There is no meaning except the meaning i give to it.

Many people would ask, what has this 2 phrases got to do with wealth creation? And my answer...EVERYTHING!!

Wealth creation is a journey, its not and never a destination. Its a journey to be some one better, some one which has higher moral values and high financial IQ.

May i ask you, do you think money would stick to the one who cannot manage it? And if you cannot even manage your own naked self, what makes you anyway better in managing money??

Going straight to the phrases,

1. For things to change, I must change first.

Every act that we do will initial a respond. Just like the click on your mouse, a left click will bring you to the page you want, and a right click will bring our the setting behind it.

If all these while you have been getting the responds you do not deserve, have you thought that it might be the things you done, the way you speak, the belief system or even the mindset in you that is creating the unfavourable responds?

A more classic examples is on relationships. Romantic relationships to be exact. Have you ever know some one whose relationship keeps on failing one after another. Or even the same problems occurs again and again.

Just think about it, how come different person and yet the same problems occurs again and again?

What is really happening? Is it the other party? or is it just his luck, too suay??

Some thing to let you guys ponder for...

The other one...

2. There is no meaning except the meaning i give to it.

Yes, there is no meaning in everything, its only the emotion we attached to it, the side of the coin we see.

why is it when someone fail an exam, person A will say i fail...whereas person B will say, now this is a learning experience.

The same event is happening, ie failing of exam, and yet 2 person have 2 exactly opposite type of responds.

From this we can conclude that, it up to all indivduals to perceive all events as good or bad, is he in luck or out of luck?

If you believe in the bright side, even though once a while it will rain, but end of the day, the sun will still shines on you.

On the other hand, if you sees things as bad, no matter rain or shine, theres always something to be unhappy about.

The choice is yours.