I always think that children are our teachers. Why? Because they know how to play! I was on my way home that day thinking the importance of play. What was the response when you ask an adult "What you gonna do today?". I doubt any of them will be exclaiming "play!"
Think about it. What will your life look like if there was more play? What would your experience of work be like if you had more fun doing your job? What would your relationship become with more spontaneous & laughter?
As adult, we stop playing once we assume responsibilties of life. Adults are nothing more than deteriorated children. It doesnt have to be that way. Take some time off and make time for play. Find the time to be little reckless and silly. Be imaginative at work and bring curiosity back to your daily lives.
How life will be so fun if we can get back that sense of wonder you knew when life was all about make believe and enjoying every second of the journey. This is call living! The next time someone looks at you with your briefcase, business suit and serious face, asking what you gonna do today, I challenge you to reply them "I am going out to play today!"
Showing posts with label greatness. Show all posts
Showing posts with label greatness. Show all posts
Wednesday, June 10, 2015
Tuesday, January 14, 2014
Have You Start Reading Obituaries?
I have start to become more philosophical these days, as I realised time is ticking by so fast...I am less willing to waste my time, less willing to listen to negative people. I am even less willing to miss an opportunity to be loving, champion another human being, get closer to my dreams, or have some genuine fun. And...I started reading obituaries too.
When I read of the lives others have lived , I am offered clues on whats most important in life. I realised that obituaries of lives well lived often share certain consistent pattern.
- Family
- Friendship
- Contribution to community
- Taking calculated risk
- Kindness through small, simple acts
- Love
The greatest of all i read speaks of being close to loved ones and of the impact the deceased had on the world around them.
Leading a beautiful life, I always ask the kinds of questions that will provoke me to think deeply ad connect with what matters most. One of the dominant traits of so many of the extraordinary people I know is the discipline of bring more reflective than most of us. So ask profound questions. Good questions lead to excellent answers and greater clarity. And greater clarity is the DNA of authentic success and personal greatness.
There are 5 questions that I hope will cause you to go deep and become more philosophical about what truly counts in your life. Most people don't discover how to love until it's time to die. By then it's too late...Start writing your answers down in journal, ask yourself on a daily basis and get yourself align!
- Did I Dream Big Enough?
- Did I Live Fully to the Extend of What I am Capable of?
- Did I Learn to Let Go of Those Thinking that Does not Support Me?
- Did I Love Well?
- Did I Leave the Earth a Better Place?
I hope the answers you arrive at will help you live with more passion and joy. Clarity does precede success. You can't hit a target you can't even see. And we are really not here that long, if you think about it. We'll all be dust before you know it! So live and maximise your potential now!
Thursday, December 27, 2012
I Want The Best, How About You?
One of the habits I consistently observed within those star performers and extraordinary leaders are their commitment to world class. They drive the highest quality class, live in the best house and wear the finest clothes. Their philosophy generally seems to be " I stand for being the best so it only make sense that I should invest in the best." And they held the belief even before they are successful.
Greatness is a state of mind. You need to believe in your potential and power before you can bring them to life. You need to feel like you are extraordinary before you can become extraordinary. I call this "emotional blueprinting" To see spectacular results in your external life, you have to emotionally create a blueprint of your vision within your inner life.
One of the best way I have discovered to achieve this feeling is to ensure that you surround yourself with the highest level. I remember reading a book years ago, written by Al Koran, called Bring out the magic in your mind. One of the ideas that stayed with me is : In order to be successful, it's important to go where the successful people are. Even if you have on $10, go have a coffee at the best restaurant in your city. His point? Your surrounding shape the way you feel. And the way you feel drives what you do. Feel world class and you behave world class.
Invest in the best. Buy the highest quality goods you can possibly afford. Better to buy one superb pair of shoe than three cheap ones. "Quality is remembered long after price is forgotten." When I just started out, I took part of my first pay check and invest in a great watch. It wasn't a rolex or cartier but it was a good one. My thinking was that it would last for years, make me feel successful while I wore it and actually end up saving me money because it would rarely need repairs. One of my friends who always looked for the cheapest deal laughed at me. But I turned out to be right. He changed 6 watches along the way, and mine is still working great!
I am in no way encouraging a senseless addiction to material things. All I am saying is that if you are serious about standing for the best. Rewarding yourself with the good things sends a message to the deepest and highest part of you. One that say I am worth it and I deserve it. It will inspire you to reach even higher, work even harder and be even better. To anyone who says that our self worth should be so strong that high quality goods won't affect how we feel, I respectfully suggest that such a statement misses the reality of human nature. Every one of us like nice things, they appeal to our senses just like a beautiful sunset, magnificent mountain.
The best investment we can have is to be the best. You might not agree but I owe you the truth. My tastes are simple, I just want the best, how about you?
Greatness is a state of mind. You need to believe in your potential and power before you can bring them to life. You need to feel like you are extraordinary before you can become extraordinary. I call this "emotional blueprinting" To see spectacular results in your external life, you have to emotionally create a blueprint of your vision within your inner life.
One of the best way I have discovered to achieve this feeling is to ensure that you surround yourself with the highest level. I remember reading a book years ago, written by Al Koran, called Bring out the magic in your mind. One of the ideas that stayed with me is : In order to be successful, it's important to go where the successful people are. Even if you have on $10, go have a coffee at the best restaurant in your city. His point? Your surrounding shape the way you feel. And the way you feel drives what you do. Feel world class and you behave world class.
Invest in the best. Buy the highest quality goods you can possibly afford. Better to buy one superb pair of shoe than three cheap ones. "Quality is remembered long after price is forgotten." When I just started out, I took part of my first pay check and invest in a great watch. It wasn't a rolex or cartier but it was a good one. My thinking was that it would last for years, make me feel successful while I wore it and actually end up saving me money because it would rarely need repairs. One of my friends who always looked for the cheapest deal laughed at me. But I turned out to be right. He changed 6 watches along the way, and mine is still working great!
I am in no way encouraging a senseless addiction to material things. All I am saying is that if you are serious about standing for the best. Rewarding yourself with the good things sends a message to the deepest and highest part of you. One that say I am worth it and I deserve it. It will inspire you to reach even higher, work even harder and be even better. To anyone who says that our self worth should be so strong that high quality goods won't affect how we feel, I respectfully suggest that such a statement misses the reality of human nature. Every one of us like nice things, they appeal to our senses just like a beautiful sunset, magnificent mountain.
The best investment we can have is to be the best. You might not agree but I owe you the truth. My tastes are simple, I just want the best, how about you?
Tuesday, December 18, 2012
Why Am I Important?
I saw this story online. This is something light for everyone during this Holiday Season! Have a good read and...Why am I important?
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A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full.. The students responded with a unanimous ‘yes.’
The professor then produced two Beers from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand.The students laughed..
‘Now,’ said the professor as the laughter subsided, ‘I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things—-your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions—-and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.. The sand is everything else—-the small stuff.
‘If you put the sand into the jar first,’ he continued, ‘there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Spend time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with grandparents. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and mow the lawn.
Take care of the golf balls first—-the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the Beer represented. The professor smiled and said, ‘I’m glad you asked.’ The Beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a couple of Beers with a friend.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full.. The students responded with a unanimous ‘yes.’
The professor then produced two Beers from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between the sand.The students laughed..
‘Now,’ said the professor as the laughter subsided, ‘I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things—-your family, your children, your health, your friends and your favorite passions—-and if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car.. The sand is everything else—-the small stuff.
‘If you put the sand into the jar first,’ he continued, ‘there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you.
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Spend time with your children. Spend time with your parents. Visit with grandparents. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to clean the house and mow the lawn.
Take care of the golf balls first—-the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the Beer represented. The professor smiled and said, ‘I’m glad you asked.’ The Beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a couple of Beers with a friend.
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I hope you have a good laugh and found out on your focus area for the important stuff. Cheers to Holiday Season!
Tuesday, November 13, 2012
Faith and Beliefs
Faith and Beliefs move mountains. I always emphasis, all you have to do is to Believe. If you don't believe that an idea will work, then there is no chance you will act on it. And if you don't act on it, you won't see any results. Thought is the mother of action and your beliefs really do become your self fulfilling prophecies.
I hang around with people making changes for others. But first of all the others must be willing for the changes to begin with. Some ask, I want to change but I don't see it. Or there are some who wants to do it but have no idea how to get started. Let's use the metaphor on mountain climbing to help illustrate how to get started with change.
Define what the mountain top looks like. I suggest you articulate, in writing, what success looks like to you. Note what needs to make adjustment in your life for you to feel spectacularly successful and what will happen if you don't. Record your goals for all key areas of your life. Write out what you want your reality to appear as five years from now. List the values you want to stand for. Clarity precedes success and awareness precedes transformation.
Start Climbing. There's great power in starting. A single act done now sets forces into play. It generates momentum. And with the action you begin to experience results. That begins a feedback loop - more action, more results. And in turn promotes confidence.
Take small steps. You can't get to the top of Everest by jumping up the mountain. You get to the mountaintop by taking incremental steps. Step by step you get to the goal. Every step gets you closer to the dream. Life's like that too. Small steps each day get you to greatness over time. Days become weeks and weeks become months and months become years. You will get to the end of life anyway, so why not reach it as an extraordinary place.
I hang around with people making changes for others. But first of all the others must be willing for the changes to begin with. Some ask, I want to change but I don't see it. Or there are some who wants to do it but have no idea how to get started. Let's use the metaphor on mountain climbing to help illustrate how to get started with change.
Define what the mountain top looks like. I suggest you articulate, in writing, what success looks like to you. Note what needs to make adjustment in your life for you to feel spectacularly successful and what will happen if you don't. Record your goals for all key areas of your life. Write out what you want your reality to appear as five years from now. List the values you want to stand for. Clarity precedes success and awareness precedes transformation.
Start Climbing. There's great power in starting. A single act done now sets forces into play. It generates momentum. And with the action you begin to experience results. That begins a feedback loop - more action, more results. And in turn promotes confidence.
Take small steps. You can't get to the top of Everest by jumping up the mountain. You get to the mountaintop by taking incremental steps. Step by step you get to the goal. Every step gets you closer to the dream. Life's like that too. Small steps each day get you to greatness over time. Days become weeks and weeks become months and months become years. You will get to the end of life anyway, so why not reach it as an extraordinary place.
Saturday, November 03, 2012
Have You Give Yet?
They have a saying, give and you shall receive! How true is that. If there is something you always wanted to have, give and be ready to receive.
If you want more credit for all you do and who you are? Be the one who gives credit to others. Spread it like wildfire. Give away what you desire most. This create a space in the minds and hearts of all those around you to give more credit.
If you want people to be more understanding? Be more understanding yourself and give that out. Want more loyalty? Be the most loyal person you ever know. Want more love? Give more love and watch what happens
I believe the universe place us here for a purpose. The purpose is all within us and it is up to us to achieve it. Most people just get in their own way and sabotage their success. They let their fears keep them from greatness. They let their limitations become their chains. They become their worst enemies. To get all that life wants for you, apply what I call the boomerang effect - Give that you want most and see it come back. It's a gorgeous life that is in store for you. Just go out and get it!
If you want more credit for all you do and who you are? Be the one who gives credit to others. Spread it like wildfire. Give away what you desire most. This create a space in the minds and hearts of all those around you to give more credit.
If you want people to be more understanding? Be more understanding yourself and give that out. Want more loyalty? Be the most loyal person you ever know. Want more love? Give more love and watch what happens
I believe the universe place us here for a purpose. The purpose is all within us and it is up to us to achieve it. Most people just get in their own way and sabotage their success. They let their fears keep them from greatness. They let their limitations become their chains. They become their worst enemies. To get all that life wants for you, apply what I call the boomerang effect - Give that you want most and see it come back. It's a gorgeous life that is in store for you. Just go out and get it!
Thursday, August 23, 2012
30 seconds of drawing
One day, Pablo Picasso was out in the market finding innovation and inspiration for his next masterpiece. While turning round a corner, a woman saw him, her idol the great Pablo Picasso. Enthusiastic and excited, she approaches him with a piece of paper.
"Mr Picasso, I am a big fan of yours. Can you please do a little drawing for me?" Picasso happily complied and etched out a drawing on the paper. After sketching and drawing for 30 seconds, he smiled and handed it back to her. He added on saying "That would be a million dollars, mdm."
"But Mr Picasso, it only took you 30 seconds to do this little drawing." replied the fluster woman unsure what to do. Picasso laughed and said" This may be a drawing drawn in 30 seconds, but it took me 30 years to achieve that."
Behind all those greatness, lies the hardwork and commitment that seldom people see. Its only when we are able to dedicate and focus our time for something we believe in can then greatness prevail.
"Mr Picasso, I am a big fan of yours. Can you please do a little drawing for me?" Picasso happily complied and etched out a drawing on the paper. After sketching and drawing for 30 seconds, he smiled and handed it back to her. He added on saying "That would be a million dollars, mdm."
"But Mr Picasso, it only took you 30 seconds to do this little drawing." replied the fluster woman unsure what to do. Picasso laughed and said" This may be a drawing drawn in 30 seconds, but it took me 30 years to achieve that."
Behind all those greatness, lies the hardwork and commitment that seldom people see. Its only when we are able to dedicate and focus our time for something we believe in can then greatness prevail.
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