Have You Start Reading Obituaries?

I have start to become more philosophical these days, as I realised time is ticking by so fast...I am less willing to waste my time, less willing to listen to negative people. I am even less willing to miss an opportunity to be loving, champion another human being, get closer to my dreams, or have some genuine fun. And...I started reading obituaries too. 

When I read of the lives others have lived , I am offered clues on whats most important in life. I realised that obituaries of lives well lived often share certain consistent pattern. 

• Family
• Friendship
• Contribution to community 
• Taking calculated risk 
• Kindness through small, simple acts 
• Love

The greatest of all i read speaks of being close to loved ones and of the impact the deceased had on the world around them. 

Leading a beautiful life, I always ask the kinds of questions that will provoke me to think deeply ad connect with what matters most. One of the dominant traits of so many of the extraordinary people I know is the discipline of bring more reflective than most of us. So ask profound questions. Good questions lead to excellent answers and greater clarity. And greater clarity is the DNA of authentic success and personal greatness. 

There are 5 questions that I hope will cause you to go deep and become more philosophical about what truly counts in your life. Most people don't discover how to love until it's time to die. By then it's too late...Start writing your answers down in journal, ask yourself on a daily basis and get yourself align!

• Did I Dream Big Enough?
• Did I Live Fully to the Extend of What I am Capable of?
• Did I Learn to Let Go of Those Thinking that Does not Support Me?
• Did I Love Well?
• Did I Leave the Earth a Better Place?

I hope the answers you arrive at will help you live with more passion and joy. Clarity does precede success. You can't hit a target you can't even see. And we are really not here that long, if you think about it. We'll all be dust before you know it! So live and maximise your potential now!

Getting in the Mood for Sex!

Sometimes, getting in the mood for sex can be as easy as eating.

Food can help trigger those sexual desires that are burning inside, and also some that were buried deep in like the Atlantis.

Proudly digged out from the internet, this list of foods below are likely to increase the libido, so make sure that you are in fact seeing the other half tonight and maybe see if the kids can be shipped off to a relatives or friends house.

Chocolate 

Finally, a good reason to eat chocolate. Many associate chocolate with fattening stuff. But do you know that It contains tryptophan, which is a chemical in the brain involved in sexual arousal? It makes people feel relax and set the in the mood for some love. *wink wink*

Almonds

Not only just almonds, but the smell of nuts is said to arouse passion in women - so people have only got themselves to blame if you pounce whilst on the train, bus or some other public place.

Almonds also contain the amino acid arginine which boost circulation allowing blood to flow to the sexual organs more easily.

Avocado

This not only boosts energy levels and contains passion inducers potassium and vitamin B6 - but, it also counts as one of your five-a-day. A win-win situation if you ask me.

Garlic

This may not be that great for your breath, but brushing your teeth should sort it out. Anyway, for a good cause, the allicin improves blood flow to the pelvic organs. A wonderful food if you ask me.


Goji berries

Otherwise known at the 'fruit viagra' so this has to work. The berries improve overall stamina, mood and well being. Plus, the anti-oxidants are known to help raise testosterone levels in both men and women. Heathly food with great benefits!

Pumpkin seeds

The zinc found in pumpkin seeds is shown to boost the libido by pumping up testosterone levels.


Now, time to start planning into a mood for great make out!