Wednesday, October 19, 2005

Some Thoughts to Be Observed

I seems to have a different perspectives in life today, people around me, seems to be having relationship problems. I don't dare to say its bothering me, but it makes me feel so sad. The technology around us are constantly improving, and i dare to say its improving in a real fast speed. Things that were not be able to done in the past was being done right now, due to the advance in technology. But sad to say, the distance between people and people and getting further and further away.

How many of you out there, actually realise that you spend more time on technology like handphones, PDAs, or even PC, than on your loved one? We spend most of the time Msn, writing Emails or rather watch Tvs, that we start losing the habit of calling them up saying, how much i miss you or i feel so fortunate to have you around.

Maybe one day when we lose them, then we start to realise how significant their role was in our life. Remember, its not how long the relationship is, its how much effort you put in to make it last. You can have a 3 years relationship, but in the end you may lose all, why? Is it because of boredom or 3rd party or maybe so sick of the same face? I believe all these are just excuses, we have examples of people during their golden years still feel so in love, but why as a younger generation, relationships are as brittle as branches?

Maybe its time we start sitting down alone or with our love one and start finding what you want from this relationship. Remember a relationship is just like a fire, don't expect it to continue burning without adding fuel nor keep on adding fuel and expect the fire to be in your control.


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